We are not kids anymore
We are too grown for this
Your actions don’t match your words
And I can’t decipher what you are
thinking.
I am not a mind reader
And if we can’t even have a conversation
About how you feel
Then what’s the point?
I feel like I’m constantly chasing you
And that this isn’t really a priority
for you
At this point in our lives, given how
busy we both are
Neither of us can afford to let an
inconsistent “relationship” drag on
I need to be with someone who is
consistent and fully committed
Someone who inspires me and challenges
me
And you need someone who lets you be
yourself, who won’t want to change you
You are definitely entitled to that
If this isn’t what you want, if there is
someone out there you feel is better for you
Don’t hold on to this because you don’t
want to hurt me
I would rather you just be honest with
me and let’s keep it moving
I appreciate that so much more and I won’t
hold it against you
If initially you thought you could do
this, but now you’re not so sure
That’s okay too. It’s just human nature.
All I want is for you to be honest.
Because if this is what you wanted, you
would be giving it your 100%
We’ve been through this before, and I
can’t accept less than full effort
So let’s call a spade a spade
And agree to let this thing go.
And to whomever you ultimately wish to
end up with
Don’t keep them waiting forever
When you find that person that does it
for you, act immediately
Don’t second guess and toss and turn
Just act
Don’t do this thing you often do in
relationships where when you are tired of being in it, you are too afraid to
break up with the person so you withdraw and frustrate them to the point that
they break up with you
It is not cool
Don’t be a coward and perpetually test
the waters
Take the bold step, take the risk and
commit! Then follow through